The Honeymoon
The idea that the first month of marriage is the sweetest
According to the Oxford English Dictionary: "The first month after marriage, when there is nothing but tenderness and pleasure" originally having no reference to the period of a month, but comparing the mutual affection of newly married persons to the changing moon which is no sooner full than it begins to wane; now, usually, the time spent together by a newly married couple, before settling down at home."
This is your time. What can you do to make it wonderful? What can you afford? How much time do you have? What do you like to do and see? This is an important time for privacy and discovering each other intimately. Whatever you decide to do, have a great time. Planning your trip may leave you wondering what you should do during your honeymoon other than just sleeping in a bed together and making love.
You may choose a trip of a lifetime to a romantic destination around the world. A vacation far away with lots of funs things to do and see. Ocean beaches, Disney, far off country of enchantment, cruises are just some of the many choices. A honeymoon like this would make friends envious and be so memorable. Consider however, You have just spent lots of time and money on a wedding. Your wedding day may be quite hectic. Are you ready for a big trip?
Some couples prefer taking a quiet close to home honeymoon to relax from the busy wedding day. Saving time and money to just spend intimate time together. A drive to honeymoon will avoid the stress of making a flight, passports, security checks and more. It can still be elaborant vacation in a suite or theme room or a nice resort with fun amenities. But what ever you do relax and savor the moment.
Disconnect from the world. Agree to turn off the phone and leave the electronic devices home. Social media and games can wait until you return home. Focus on each other.
Set the mood Gather candles, massage oil, and room fresheners to create an amazingly romantic atmosphere in your room. Put your favorite romantic music on a playlist,
Plan an adventure There is always something different to do than the obvious activities. Is there a hike or a great place to go sight seeing? A long walk and talk can help get to know each other better. How about a show or some other event? Get walking and moving to help your body release more endorphins can get you in the mood for love later. Don't get too busy, just take time and relax.
Dining Eat well. Look for something exotic and different. Plan something romantic for a special meal together. You may also want to have room service to stay in a romantic mood.
Dream talk Plan some time to discuss what your dreams and goals together might be. What are your hopes as you begin a new life together.
Sunrise Plan on getting out early if possible to watch the sunrise. This quiet time will be great to reflect on your new beginning. May or may not be over breakfast.
Souvenier Find something that you can keep as a souvenier of your honeymoon. Take photos of things you went and seen to remember the Special time together.